‘You're either coming out of a storm, in a storm or heading into a storm.’ (John Easley) Urban myth: ‘If we can just get through this, there will be calm waters ahead.’ Now, I concede that things may be less turbulent for a while than they are in the midst of whatever dramas today may bring, yet the new normal is to face continual and complex change. Think back for a moment to the most significant experiences you went through in the past 12 months, personally and-or professionally. I imagine that some of those things were anticipated, some less so, and some came from completely out of the blue; appearing like a rogue wave from left field. Mixed metaphors apart…this reality was certainly true for a group of UK health and social care professionals I worked with this week. The winds of change have left some feeling buffeted, battered and bruised by waves and, at times, clinging onto what feels like a shipwreck. It was also true for a Filipina teacher this week who, on discovering corruption that impacts seriously on her poorest students, registered her protest and resigned from her post as a matter of principle: no job to go to but with her ethics intact. The officials in question are now breathing threats. The good news is that not all changes are or feel so rough. There are clearly experiences in life and work that we initiate, control or welcome. At those times, it may feel like we’re surfing the waves, enjoying the rush of the ride and savouring its benefits. So, what can we do in those situations where we do feel out of our depth? How can we grow in our resourcefulness and resilience? Here are 3 things I'm still practising: 1. Pray: open myself to God and his perspective; 2. Prioritise: focus on who or what matters most; 3. Prepare: develop myself to be more agile.
16 Comments
Carrie Holder
17/11/2024 10:40:56 am
Hey Nick, wow, that Filipino teacher sounds so brave! I really hope I can be like her someday.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:00:40 pm
Thanks Carrie. Yes indeed - and me too!
Reply
Justin Williams
17/11/2024 10:44:36 am
Hi Nick, what you’ve written here really resonates with me. I’ve faced so many unexpected changes in my life, some of them downright disorienting, like when I was made redundant. At times, it’s been overwhelming trying to find my footing again. Your words have helped me see things in a clearer light and some ideas I can try. Thank you.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:01:59 pm
Hi Justin. Thanks for sharing so honestly from personal experience. I can certainly relate to that and I'm pleased you found the ideas helpful.
Reply
Tim Costi
17/11/2024 10:47:21 am
I totally get this storm analogy! Working in tech, where everything moves at lightning speed, I’ve faced wave after wave of challenges. Last year, our startup nearly collapsed when funding fell through, and I had to pivot hard to keep the team afloat. At first, it felt overwhelming, but focusing on what mattered (our mission and the people) helped me weather the chaos. The idea of staying agile resonates. For me, it’s about constant learning: I signed up for courses, built new skills, and networked like crazy. Prayer isn’t my thing, but prioritizing and preparing have been my anchors. Thanks for the reminder to embrace the ride rather than fear the storm.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:05:21 pm
Hi Tim and thanks for your encouraging feedback. I guess the tech world moves and changes very quickly. It sounds like you're doing the right things to stay afloat in the midst of everything - and to enable others to do so too. 'Embrace the ride rather than fear the storm' - I like that...and it's not always easy.
Reply
Dana Osterfield
17/11/2024 10:50:44 am
This really hits close to home. I work in the NHS, and honestly, “buffeted and battered” doesn’t even begin to describe the past year. Staffing shortages, endless shifts, and the emotional weight of supporting patients and their families. I felt like I was constantly drowning.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:07:39 pm
Hi Dana. That sounds like a very rough and challenging year for you. Sadly, I hear quite a few people describe similar experiences in the health and social care arena at the moment. I'm pleased you received such lovely and affirming feedback from a patient. That must have felt very heart-warming.
Reply
Anna Beatriz Dela Cruz
17/11/2024 10:53:58 am
This struck a chord with me as I read about my fellow Filipina teacher. I, too, have faced corruption in the education system, and the decision to stand up against it was terrifying. I wasn’t sure if I’d lose everything. Like her, I couldn’t stay silent knowing the damage it caused to my students.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:44:58 pm
Hi Anna and thank you for sharing so honestly from personal experience. I'm so sorry you have faced similar challenges. Yes, a choice to act with integrity is so important - and can be so difficult. I like how you described that courage as its own storm - but, in my experience too, the cost is worth it. Prayer and community are lessons we would do well to learn in the UK!
Reply
Leon Tobias Schneider
17/11/2024 10:57:13 am
Hi Nick. I admire the sentiment here, but I’ve weathered enough storms to know there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. During my years running a business, I faced countless crises: market crashes, supply chain chaos, personal loss. Sure, prayer, priorities, and preparation helped when I had the luxury of time and clarity.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:50:52 pm
Hi Leon. Thanks for sharing from personal experience too. That's a fair challenge. I agree - some storms leave permanent scars. (See: https://www.nick-wright.com/blog/scars) I like your focus on, and metaphor of, 'learning to build stronger boats.' In this Filipina's view, everyone can resign in principle...although not everyone is willing to face and live with the consequences. It's not always an easy choice.
Reply
Kevin Harrison
17/11/2024 10:59:36 am
Hi Nick. I always read your blogs and I appreciate this perspective, especially as someone who’s been knocked around by “rogue waves” a few times.
Reply
Nick Wright
17/11/2024 12:54:31 pm
Hi Kevin and thanks for such encouraging feedback on the blogs. I can imagine that facing redundancy after 20 years could have felt very difficult for you. 'It felt like my ship had capsized' is an powerful metaphor. It sounds like it has prompted you to re-evaluate your life and work - and that is admirable and important.
Reply
Paul
18/11/2024 03:16:57 pm
Some events in life are absolutely unavoidable, it is not how you weather the storm, but how you dance in the rain as aptly said by K. Bromberg, is being taken by this Filipino teacher to a higher level. Armed only with faith and fears nothing except her God is truly remarkable.
Reply
Nick Wright
18/11/2024 11:00:48 pm
Hi Paul. Yes, that's an inspiring expression - yet I don't always find it easy to do in the midst of the storm. This Filipina teacher is, in my experience, quite unique in her faith and action and I agree - truly remarkable.
Reply
Leave a Reply. |
Nick WrightI'm a psychological coach, trainer and OD consultant. Curious to discover how can I help you? Get in touch! Like what you read? Simply enter your email address below to receive regular blog updates!
|