What’s your angle? We use this expression to check out a perspective, a way of seeing things, of presenting things. The angle itself is designed to convey something as interesting, eye-catching, novel, unique. There’s another way of thinking about ‘angle’ too. A friend commented yesterday that, if we look at a protractor, we see how a slight shift at the centre leads to a significantly different end point at the perimeter. The shift represents a change of direction and trajectory.
So here we are at the start of a New Year. The decisions, the angles, we take, here and now, will influence where we finish in the future. They may seem small and insignificant in the moment yet, each time we change our angle, the direction in which we face, we change our trajectory too. In many aspects of life, the cause-and-effect consequences are not as linear and predictable as lines on a mathematical tool. Nevertheless, it’s as if every choice and decision, in some way, counts. We can also look at our lives, circumstances, choices and decisions, from different angles. Leaders, coaches, OD and trainers refer to this as ‘reframing’. It could involve, say, looking at ourselves, our relationships and situations through different metaphorical frames or lenses, from different angles or vantage points, from different points in time or stakeholder perspectives etc. This can open up new insights and possibilities that may otherwise lay obscure or hidden to us. I believe this is where coaching to develop critical reflective practice can be so important, valuable and useful. It can enable us to grow in awareness of our beliefs, values, assumptions and preoccupations – our default angles, if you like. It can enable us to consider fresh options and implications that will guide our focus, attention, behaviour, decisions and actions. It can enable us to live authentic lives and to work with greater insight and freedom. So – what’s your angle?
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Wil'fred Leonardo Bastiani
3/1/2017 01:59:51 pm
The right Angle is the ChonioMetric result of the right CheoMetric & ChaoMetric Anger. Referring to Gandhi's quote about the 'Angine's Anger'. Anger as a Singularity implies Angle ζ-ρ (zerho). ~ https://youtu.be/1V2745cW65k
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Nick Wright
3/1/2017 02:01:29 pm
Hi Wil'fred. I didn't understand any of that - but I found your YouTube presentation intriguing!
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Wil'fred Leonardo Bastiani
3/1/2017 02:24:50 pm
It is the implicate order/code of the energy that words have being some energy. Anger works like a combustion engine/angine; driven into an angle and then it egg-plodes .....
Nick Wright
3/1/2017 02:25:43 pm
Thanks Wilfred. That's certainly a very different angle to any I have explored previously.
Ravi Kanadia
3/1/2017 07:41:28 pm
Same here nick.
Nick Wright
6/1/2017 03:06:23 pm
Thanks Ravi. :)
E.G.Sebastian (CPC)
3/1/2017 02:55:38 pm
I knew it, I KNEW IT, Nick! I knew it that you had an angle...! I just didnt' know it was so sneaky :) -- Just kidding - but usually when I hear the word "angle," it conjures a negative connotation in my mind. "What's your angle!?" - probably from movies...
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Nick Wright
3/1/2017 02:57:25 pm
Hi E.G. Good point! It made me think about how the angle we take, the angle we default to perhaps, is influenced by language and the personal/cultural connotations it holds for us.
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Ian Henderson
3/1/2017 03:32:13 pm
Thanks Nick - another valuable insight.
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Nick Wright
3/1/2017 03:32:37 pm
Cheers, Ian!
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John Free
3/1/2017 07:36:06 pm
Excellent point, thank you for including visuals that cannot be ignored. I often would use the protractor not for it's intended purpose but for doodling. The angle I am looking at is simplification, in purpose, passion and methods.
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Nick Wright
3/1/2017 07:38:58 pm
Thanks John! Sounds like the angle you're looking at resonates well with 3D's coaching ethos and approach: http://www.3dcoaching.com/
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Kathleen M. Vaughan, MA, ACC
3/1/2017 07:40:01 pm
A great invitation to #goodpracticecoaching.
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Nick Wright
3/1/2017 07:40:32 pm
Thanks Kathleen! :)
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Errol Lawson
5/1/2017 08:57:07 am
Spot on Nick. Growth can only come from a place of reflection where we continually assess and improve our stance. All the while, we need to be looking at our current self through different lenses.
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Nick Wright
5/1/2017 08:59:21 am
Thanks Errol. My sense is that reflection relates to conscious growth rather than growth per se. Stance is a good word and metaphor to use vis a vis angles. I sometimes encourage clients to experiment physically with stance and angles to see what rises into awareness for them when they do it.
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Keith Amoss PhD FCIPD
5/1/2017 09:24:45 pm
Thanks for the short , sharp, post Nick. Could not agree more. Without deep reflection and self analysis it will never be possible to see yourself as others may see you. And without that insight it will be very hard to set yourself in a positive new direction. Happy New Year!
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Nick Wright
5/1/2017 09:27:15 pm
Thanks Keith. That makes me think about how important feedback from others is too - what do they experience when they encounter us and what does that reveal to us about our 'angle' in relation to them? Happy New Year to you too!
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Susan D Willsie
5/1/2017 09:28:41 pm
I like this idea of "default angles". Sometimes we forget that our way of thinking or seeing things is not the only way, just because it is our default. As you write, we want to be aware of our default angles in order to grow and "live authentic lives". Thinking in terms of angles suggests that there are many perspectives and one is not better than the other, it just depends on where you start and the direction you are going.
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Nick Wright
5/1/2017 09:34:31 pm
Thanks Susan! Yes, to be aware of our own defaults-as-defaults can be humbling, important and useful. I'm not sure if necessarily implies that one is not better than the other...but it does mean we can exercise a greater sense of choice among options. What do you think?
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Patricia (Tricia) Kennedy
5/1/2017 09:36:24 pm
Personally, I follow an evidence-based approach ... not sure if that is an angle, per se ... but I look to Rubin and Bellamy's (2012) description that blends the best evidence available, experience of the professional, and the environment of the situation.
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Nick Wright
5/1/2017 09:37:37 pm
Hi Tricia. I'm not familiar with Rubin & Bellamy's description. Sounds interesting. Can you say more? Do you have an example from experience that could illustrate what it entails in practice? Thanks!
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Patricia (Tricia) Kennedy
7/1/2017 07:56:35 pm
It is a book written by Allen Rubin and Jennifer Bellamy called Practitioner's Guide to Using Research for Evidence-Based Practice. It is written for an audience of 'helping professions' (primarily therapy), but the concept of evidence-based practice emerged from medical practice and applies broadly. I am partial to this particular book because it is focused on applying the concept in practice in a reasonable way that combines the best research evidence available with practitioner expertise and the unique characteristics of a certain setting.
Nick Wright
7/1/2017 07:57:06 pm
Thanks Tricia. Sounds like a useful resource for critical reflective practice.
Manuel Mateos
6/1/2017 08:55:01 am
Very interesting question... What I could call "my angle" is striving on doing things differently in similar circumstances or personal situations. However, it is a hard task; our minds can make us to repeat what we did in the past no matter the situations are different. But while doing the effort, sometimes we can learn very important things about ourselves, whether we win or lose.
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Nick Wright
6/1/2017 08:58:04 am
Thanks Manuel. Yes, breaking out of our default perspectives and patterns can be difficult...and rewarding. This is one reason why developing critical reflective practice is so important and useful.
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Choo Huat, Billy Teoh
6/1/2017 08:58:30 am
Strategic metaphor at work.
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Nick Wright
6/1/2017 08:59:04 am
Hi Choo. I'm intrigued. Could you say a bit more..?
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Tariq M Kayes
6/1/2017 03:01:12 pm
Nick, man, you always come up with creative metaphorical insights 💫👍. Beautifully blogged.
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Nick Wright
6/1/2017 03:02:49 pm
Thanks for such encouraging feedback, Tariq. The protractor metaphor came from a conversation with an IT trainer friend, Rob Abbott.
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Andy Kowalski
6/1/2017 03:03:46 pm
More than one way in seeing a situation, angle infographic very apt!
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Nick Wright
6/1/2017 03:04:54 pm
Thanks Andy. I like the notion of 'trajectory' that the protractor image and metaphor conveys too.
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Nese Kerimoglu
10/1/2017 08:52:30 am
Thanks a lot Nick.. I thought if we could maintain the state of not having an angle at all in our coaching practice.. Just pure, unconditioned child curiosity. Although it may seem too difficult to achieve.
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Nick Wright
10/1/2017 08:52:50 am
Thanks Nese. I think that's a really interesting question about how far it is possible and desirable to be angle-free. I wonder if childlike curiosity can enable us to grow in awareness of our angles, along with childlike playfulness that can enable us to experiment with alternatives?
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Nese Kerimoglu
10/1/2017 08:53:28 am
I suggest to try to achieve this state during getting to know a new client and also whenever a newer situation arises with an existing client. It may enable us to question, understand and reflect back more effectively...rather than playfulness I refer to curiosity in relation with children.
Nick Wright
10/1/2017 08:54:14 am
Thanks Nese.
Angela McCracken
10/1/2017 09:02:16 am
I encourage my clients to find their MOJO. This is quality that attracts people to you, a charisma which comes from within. I explains all this and how to get it in my new book - How to Get Back your Mojo - which is a self awareness adventure covering lifestyle and life skills and your own secret ingredient (everyone is different). this harnesses confidence and creates resilience.
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Nick Wright
10/1/2017 09:04:12 am
Hi Angela. 'Comes from within'. I wonder how much 'mojo' comes from culture and context too..?
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Marion Duff registered MBACP
10/1/2017 11:05:32 am
I like this truth, put well. We are all turning on our own axle, seeing our selves anew as we turn. Time allows this development, and is the moving image of Eternity. Positives can become negatives, good can become bad in politics, with friends, with family, in fact everywhere. We are turning, tuning in, learning slowly about the bigger picture, and perhaps getting a little closer together as our understanding grows.
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Nick Wright
10/1/2017 11:07:15 am
Thanks Marion. I like the image of the axle turning. Yes, it is interesting to see how a person's perspective changes with time and different experiences.
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Carter McNamara, MBA, PhD
10/1/2017 11:15:14 pm
Notice how attentive and nurturing that Nick is being, while cultivating this discussion? Imagine if each originator of a discussion was like that :-)
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Nick Wright
10/1/2017 11:18:03 pm
Thanks for your warm encouragement, Carter, and for sharing such a vivid and personal example of 'seeing and hearing'. I add 'sensing' to the mix of what I'm noticing, what I'm aware of, at an intuitive level.
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Hoana Walters
11/1/2017 10:24:17 am
Hi Nick
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Nick Wright
11/1/2017 10:24:43 am
Thanks Hoana!
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Jemma Barton
16/1/2017 02:19:54 pm
This resonates so much with me at the moment. As a new coach forming my practice creating programmes and offerings for the first time. The slight adjustments to focus and delivery have a great potential to diverge...
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Nick Wright
16/1/2017 02:20:45 pm
Thanks for your affirming feedback, Jemma!
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