People sometimes become stuck and struggle to find ways forward in their work and relationships because of how they perceive and respond to people and situations. I ran a workshop recently to help managers develop insights and skills in cognitive behavioural coaching (CBC). CBC is based on cognitive behavioural psychology. It is interested in how a person’s thinking influences his or her feelings and behaviour. It aims to improve a person’s effectiveness by reducing stress and opening fresh possibilities for the future.
Cognitive refers to mental processes: what we are thinking and what we believe. Behaviour refers to what we do: how we act in relationships and other situations. Coaching refers to helping a person enhance their life quality and effectiveness. CBC aims to help a person surface, examine and challenge limiting or self-defeating thoughts and beliefs. It is not just about positive thinking but more about reality-orientation. It focuses on what’s happening ‘here and now’ and on helping the person approach the future differently. A CB coach invites a person to talk about an issue, a challenge or something they are experiencing. Often, it is something that is causing the person frustration or stress. Sometimes, however, it could be simply that a person feels limited by a way of working or is struggling to find a way forward. In order for the person to be honest, the coach needs to demonstrate genuine interest and trustworthiness. The person needs to feel free to be open, without being judged, and to know the coach has the person’s best interests at heart. Listening and confidentiality are very important. If the person is feeling anxious, stressed or highly emotionally-charged, it’s unlikely that he or she will feel able to engage in a conversation about thinking patterns without calming down first. Creating the right cathartic space, perhaps over a coffee, can help the person relax and engage. A CB coach will allow a person to introduce an issue or situation he or she is dealing with and listen out for indicators of ‘cognitive distortions’, that is, ways in which the person is thinking about the issue or situation that are out of synch with reality or proving counterproductive. Common examples include polarising issues into extremes; over-generalising from specific experiences and ignoring all evidence to the contrary; predicting the future and excluding all alternative possibilities; assuming what other people are thinking or feeling; anticipating the worst possible outcomes. The coach will draw attention to these thinking patterns, invite the person to examine them, and offer supportive challenges that help the person think in new ways (e.g. ‘what assumptions are you making?’, ‘how far is what you’re thinking supported by the facts?’, ‘what are you not noticing?’). Finally, the coach will help the person plan a way forward to deal with the issue or situation differently. This could involve e.g. conversation, vividly imagining new scenarios or role playing to practise and reinforce new ways of thinking and behaving.
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John Hook
1/7/2012 03:34:45 am
Clever stuff Nick.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 03:35:03 am
Thanks John. I've found CBC very helpful, both as a coach and as a client. With best wishes. Nick
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Anders
1/7/2012 04:27:05 am
Hi.
Cyril Dunworth
1/7/2012 04:49:56 am
Great piece Nick.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 04:52:40 am
Hi Cyril and thanks for your encouraging feedback. I like your emphasis on listening, inviting, thinking before responding etc and the three principles you listed at the end of your note. With best wishes. Nick
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 04:58:00 am
Hi Anders and thanks for your note. Yes, it's one of the reasons CBC is often used for brief coaching. You may be interested in 'Brief Cognitive Behaviour Therapy' (2000) by Curwen, Palmer and Ruddell which outlines and explains similar principles. With best wishes. Nick
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Anders
1/7/2012 05:40:10 am
Ty for the tip, Nick.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 06:14:40 am
Hi Anders. I would love to hear more about your own insights, ideas and experiences in the CBC/CBT fields. You may be interested in a couple of CBC-based articles on this website: http://www.nick-wright.com/fresh-thinking.html (2010) and http://www.nick-wright.com/gestalt-meets-cognitive-coaching.html (2012). I would be interested to hear what you think. With best wishes. Nick
John Hook
1/7/2012 05:55:21 am
I'm CBT qualified Nick - My clients can't believe the change in the perception of things - Aaron Beck is a genius
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 05:57:03 am
Hi John. I would love to hear some examples from your practice if you'd be happy to share them, particularly in terms of how you/your clients achieved a chance in perception and what difference it made for them. With best wishes. Nick
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John Hook
1/7/2012 07:17:41 am
Phew - that's a biggy lol - it depends on the client and the trauma?
Keith Bamwell
1/7/2012 06:00:24 am
I am a huge fan of CBC and use it a lot. I find it amazing how many people's current world perspective is almost totally rooted in the past personal life experiences and is so often skewed by this. I really like the concise way you have outlined the process and value Nick - good effort.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 06:04:00 am
Hi Keith and thanks for the encouraging feedback. I would be very interested to hear some examples from your own experience of using CBC, if you would be happy to share them. Your comment about the influence and distorting effects of past personal life experiences reminded me of transference in the psychodynamic tradition and scripts in the transactional analysis field. With best wishes. Nick
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Heather Graz
1/7/2012 06:27:44 am
Hi Nick. would I be correct in assuming that CBC parallels CBT, but with application in a work-based arena rather than a therapeutic arena?
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 06:36:11 am
Hi Heather. That's a good question. My impression is that CBC has grown out of insights and practices developed in the CBT therapeutic arena. It's often applied to work contexts but could equally be applied to other life situations too.
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Heather Graz
1/7/2012 06:45:45 am
Thanks for that, Nick. I'll certainly have a look at the link and get back to you.
Ed Nottingham PhD
1/7/2012 07:06:56 am
Nick, great blog entry. I met Stephen Palmer at the Amer Psychological Assoc Division of Consulting Psychology Mid-Winter Conference last Feb when my colleagues and I were delivering a workshop on Cognitive Behavioral Coaching. I am so glad I need and learned more about the ISCP.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 07:14:45 am
Thanks for your encouraging feedback, Ed, and for your comments.
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Rehmat Ebrahim
1/7/2012 07:19:19 am
sounds very interesting... I think most of us run into this kind of real-life propblem get bogged down and seem to mess up. Will you share some of your guiding principles with us?
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 07:21:16 am
Hi Rehmat and thanks for your note. You may be interested to have a glance at these articles which explore CBC principles in greater depth: http://www.nick-wright.com/fresh-thinking.html (2010) and http://www.nick-wright.com/gestalt-meets-cognitive-coaching.html (2012). Let me know what you think? With best wishes. Nick
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Rehmat Ebrahim
2/7/2012 01:32:03 pm
Thanks..enjoyed reading it... now I need to mull over it...thanks for sharing
Catherine Leonard
1/7/2012 08:05:41 am
I'm coaching a woman who hates her job but depends on the income, I'm challenging her to find ways to be happy now until she can see her way to another position..
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 08:07:28 am
Hi Catherine. Thanks for sharing a concrete example. Could you say more about how you are bringing the challenge in practice? With best wishes. Nick
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Catherine Leonard
1/7/2012 09:30:59 am
She is exploring things that she would love to do if given the opportunity but she is really stuck and when asked what she is passionate about - can't come up with an answer!
Anders
1/7/2012 10:11:01 am
Hate is a strong word and is probaply not true. Explore that and modify her own "story" to a more realistic version. Then, go for control and influence to the most chengeable factor in the hating. Hers selfesteem will grow and the possibilitys to make a move in a another direction will increase.
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1/7/2012 09:26:52 am
Beautiful Posting Nick. Beyond CBC for sure are TWO OTHERS in the taxonomy of Social Endeavor ; Psycho-motor aspects that is fulfilled in Competency and the Appraisal/Moral Aspects for Feedback ; All these comprehensively rolled into one = a truly the eements of Ideal Coaching.A coach can blend well any competent PRIOR LEARNING with the RECENT COMPETENT ONES.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 01:31:37 pm
Hi Felino and thanks for the encouraging feedback. I guess the competency aspects you refer to are linked to the behavioural (B) aspects of CBC. With best wishes. Nick
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JD
1/7/2012 01:28:57 pm
Hi, I just read this blog and want to thank you.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 01:29:34 pm
Hi JD and many thanks for such kind feedback. I'm delighted you found the summary so helpful and thanks for your encouraging comments on the website. I hope you find other things there helpful too. With best wishes. Nick
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Julio Alberto Llerandi
1/7/2012 01:47:59 pm
Thanks Nick, very good article, I appreciate it and, think it can be very good tool in my work as a coach.
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 01:50:27 pm
Thanks for your encouraging feedback, Julio. I would be interested to hear how you find using CBC in your coaching practice. With best wishes. Nick
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Lizzie Pawsey
1/7/2012 01:50:55 pm
Hi Nick
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Nick Wright
1/7/2012 01:56:22 pm
Hi Lizzie. That's a good question and I'm not sure what to suggest. I had a quick glance on Google just now and this one looks like it could be interesting, run by the Association of Executive Coaching: http://www.aoec.com/Individuals/Workshops/CognitiveBehaviouralCoaching. There may be other similar programmes around too. Hope that helps. With best wishes. Nick
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Ranald Hendriks
2/7/2012 05:16:04 am
Hi Nick
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Nick Wright
4/7/2012 04:42:32 am
Hi Ranald. Thanks for the note and for your encouraging feedback on the website. I think you raise an interesting point about alignment between personal development and organisational goals, especially when clients are sponsored by their organisation to engage in coaching.
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Susan Grandfield
2/7/2012 07:08:02 am
I have started using CB approaches in both my coaching and training solutions and I'm finding that they have a powerful impact on people. It has really helped many people I have been working with to get "unstuck" in ways that other approaches have not been able to.
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Nick Wright
4/7/2012 07:37:00 am
Hi Susan and thanks for the note. Would you be willing to share any specific examples of how you have used CB approaches in coaching and training, e.g. any particular insights or techniques? I would be interested to hear more. With best wishes. Nick
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Angela Rizzo
2/7/2012 01:30:40 pm
I have found using the Living Your Strengths assesment test and book to be very helpful in guiding my clients to an understanding of what their strengths are and then begin conversation about how they can use those strengths in a new career or even their current career.
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Nick Wright
4/7/2012 07:39:25 am
Hi Angela. I haven't come across the Living Your Strengths assessment test. Is that the same as StrengthFinder? With best wishes. Nick
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Angela Rizzo
4/7/2012 07:56:28 am
Hi Nick - yes I believe it is - we are doing it at our parish and there is a catholic edition we are using but I do believe it is the same as StrengthFinder but this edition gives more detail into how to use your strengths in ministry. Enjoy the 4th!
Sharman Jeffries
4/7/2012 05:26:11 am
Hi Nick, I am very glad I noticed your post and followed up on your other articles. I find your writing to be not only articulate and professionally sound, but also very readable -and I do struggle with reading some folks articles being, like many of clients, neurodiverse (having dyslexia, dyspraxia and ADHD). I was on an assessment course some time back with some lovely people from World Vision so it was interesting to see you are now with that organisation. Thanks for your sharing your skill and knowledge base. Sharman
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Nick Wright
4/7/2012 05:28:39 am
Hi Sharman and thanks for such encouraging and heartwarming feedback. I'm pleased you have had such a positive encounter with people from WV. I've worked there for 7 years and it's a great organisation. I'm currently moving on to start in a new post at Action on Hearing Loss, commencing in August. With best wishes. Nick
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Sharman Jeffries
4/7/2012 08:35:02 am
Hi Nick, I wish you well in your new post – I am sure you will benefit the
Susan Grandfield
4/7/2012 09:19:36 am
Sure Nick....I am really just getting going with using CB approaches so I'm still learning but I have noticed the biggest impact when I can help people recognise the relationship between their beliefs and their behaviour. For example, I have been working with an organisation which is trying to improve their health and safety record and change the culture with regards to H&S and I have been working with their management and leadership teams using the belief cycle.
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Nick Wright
4/7/2012 09:27:12 am
Thanks for sharing such a tangible example, Susan. I've had similar experiences that touch on the issue of 'genuine belief' that you mention. For example, I worked with the leaders of an organisational change process. The first question I posed was, 'As you think about the people in this organisation - picture the real individuals in front of you now - what do you believe about them?'. After a pause, I explained, 'If you believe they are fantastically gifted and committed people that you deeply care about and want to retain for the future, it will guide your behaviour and decision-making. If you believe they are abstract assets or resources that you can utilise or dispense with as you see fit, that too will guide your behaviour and decision-making. 'So, what do you believe?' The impact in the team was quite remarkable and fundamentally shaped the whole change process that followed. The thing it taught me is that beliefs, values and behaviours are closely linked and that each influences the others. With best wishes. Nick
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4/7/2012 10:30:54 am
Hi Nick:
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Nick Wright
4/7/2012 11:09:10 am
Hi Mike. Thanks for such incredibly affirming feedback. I really appreciate it! Please do feel free to add your own comments, ideas and experiences too. With best wishes. Nick
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Jo Higgins-Cezza
11/7/2012 04:53:08 am
I incorporate CBT techniques in my Resilience Training, and as you both point out, the change in thinking is amazing. One opening exercise I do is to give out cards to pairs with "common beliefs" on them and ask the pair to argue for and against the belief. The group then decides which of the beliefs on the cards is most helpful to them in their personal and professional life. Generates a fantastic discussion.
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Nick Wright
11/7/2012 04:54:57 am
Hi Jo and thanks for sharing the 'common beliefs' cards idea - sounds like a very energising technique. Could you share some examples of the common beliefs that you include on the cards? With best wishes. Nick
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John T Miller II, MSc
30/10/2012 08:39:35 am
This is exactly the information I am looking for to explain my interest in this area of psychology. Thank you.
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Nick Wright
30/10/2012 08:40:22 am
Thanks John. I'm pleased you found it helpful. With best wishes. Nick
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Eileen Peterson CHRP MSW RCSW
30/10/2012 09:31:39 am
The original term for this is CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. The process you outlined is precisely what happens in therapy with CBT. Does simply relabeling it CBC mean that you aren't stepping into therapeutic territory? I am concerned about the increasing use of processes and methodology that are very much part of the licensed therapist's tool box being adopted by "coaches" who will insist that what they do is not remotely related to therapy. This is a great example of blurring the line, in my opinion.
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Nick Wright
30/10/2012 09:46:47 am
Hi Eileen. I think you raise a good point and an important question. The framework and approach adopted by cognitive behavioural coaches is, as you say, derived largely from CBT. The question of how and where to draw the line between coaching and therapy is interesting and controversial, especially in the psychological coaching field where some coaches are also qualified and experienced therapists.
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Ed Nottinghman PhD
30/10/2012 09:48:49 am
Eileen, interesting points and ones I also emphasize. While I am a licensed clinical psychologist and Board Certified (American Board of Professional Psychology) in Cognitive & Behavioral Therapy, when I coach and suspect issues needing therapy, I refer. My concern is also that those without a solid background may "blur" the waters and start delivering services which by law (in many jurisdictions) are limited to those licensed or certified to practice social work, psychology, medicine, counseling, etc.
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Nick Wright
30/10/2012 09:53:58 am
Interesting comments in response to Eileen, Ed. I agree with your view that cognitive behavioural insights and approaches can increase the likelihood of a positive impact. I think you raise some interesting points too concerning legislative or other regulatory requirements, which vary from country to country and context to context. It raises related issues about professional liability, especially if a coach is perceived by the client or other contracting agent to have moved outside the proper scope (however that is defined) of 'coaching' into a more explicitly therapeutic arena.
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Dimos Kyritsis
30/10/2012 09:58:13 am
Hi there Nick! That's an informative and powerful post! I'm interested to CBT coaching as well! Feel free to connect with me so as to team up!
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Nick Wright
30/10/2012 09:59:39 am
Hi Dimos and thanks for your encouraging feedback. I would be interested to hear more about your cognitive behavioural coaching insights and experiences. With best wishes. Nick
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W Leon Naufahu
2/11/2012 08:42:42 am
There can be no clear demarcation between therapy and coaching. It depends. If we try to draw lines in the sand we may protect our liability but the price we pay is our ability to deeply connect with our clients. If the conversation comes up what is the coach to do? Stop the client and tell them "Hey I don't do therapy?" When you are seeking an understanding of your client you have to let the space be available for them to bring up issues which might be considered in the realm of therapy. But how you handle this complexity once it arises is the issue. The coach must truly understand if their own skills really match the needs of their client. If not, then of course they must refer on. Any coach with good supervision will have the contacts to refer to, and will have considered how to handle that situation. For example, as earlier posts alluded to, cognitive behavioural coaching can often assist in the day-to-day practice of restructuring automatic negative thoughts while the client is in therapy. Other personality types, however may not react so favourably to such a referral.
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Nick Wright
2/11/2012 08:50:55 am
Hi W Leon. Thanks for your helpful comments. I agree with your view that there is no absolute demarcation between therapy and coaching, especially in the psychological coaching arena, and that the coach needs to be aware of boundaries. As a general principle, if I find the coaching conversation moving towards complex deep issues that call for mental or emotional 'healing', rather than a relatively straightforward shift in perspective or behaviour, I would raise this explicitly with the client and suggest that he or she explores therapeutic opportunities to work on those issues, rather than attempt to address them through coaching. How does that sound? With best wishes. Nick
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W Leon Naufahu
5/11/2012 12:22:29 pm
Coaching, despite what our egos and wallets would like us to believe, cannot help everyone, and understanding when not to coach is a vital skill. Whether your approach is a categorical one to diagnosis, such as that proposed by Dr Michael Cavanagh, or a psychosocial model such as Andrew Buckley’s, knowing how to recognise the signs and what to do is part of good coaching practice. I believe you can simultaneously ask “Is the client mentally ill?” and “Can my coaching help?” as long as your approach is cautious, non-malfeasant and ethical. Leon.
Amanda Cunningham
5/11/2012 12:20:45 pm
I agree Leon. This reminds me of Jenny Rogers comments in The Handbook of Knowledge Based Coaching.
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Nick Wright
5/11/2012 12:31:59 pm
Thanks for posting such a challenging response, Amanda. What struck me as I read some of the comments on this therapy vs coaching debate is how often the cognitions/beliefs a person holds about 'therapy' or 'coaching', including definitions, boundaries, overlaps etc. as well as beliefs about an approrpriate role, training, accreditation etc. of 'therapist' or 'coach' influence how that person feels about the issues and how he or she is likely to act in practice. In other words, the debate is itself an illustration of cognitive behavioural principles at work. I'm interested too how such beliefs are often socially as well as personally constructed, e.g. the mirror the views of a wider professional body or study programme. With best wishes. Nick
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Felicity O'Hanlon
8/11/2012 02:52:08 am
If I may belatedly join the discussion I would like to say as a coach who is training to be a therapist that at the outset I believe they are very distinct skills. However coaching psychology is in a way straddling both fields. CBT is also used in a therapeutic setting but is also very different to psychodynamic counselling/therapy as is Gestalt or person centred counselling/therapy. So therapy in itself is not a homogenous entity. My understanding is that as coaching psychology is a relatively new profession the need to deliniate and define is inevitable but as is often the case in psychology (or any 'science' of human behaviour) absolutes are seldom reached.
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 02:59:36 am
Welcome to the conversation, Felicity, and thanks for such thoughtful comments. I was particularly struck by your point that, 'if a coaching client has the need for therapy it will become apparent... coaching alone will appear to not be resolving all the issues presented or other issues will be getting in the way of coaching.' I think that's a helpful pragmatic way of thinking about boundaries between coaching and therapy and points to the need for the coach to be aware of what's happening in the process (which is where supervision can help) and what other types of support or intervention could benefit the client. With best wishes. Nick
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Ed Nottingham PhD
8/11/2012 03:02:16 am
Great discussion! One of the issues may be the statutes and ethics associated with practice in our various areas/regions/countries/states. At times, this may be more of a guiding principle than even putting the client's / coachee's interests first.
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 03:06:24 am
Hi Ed and thanks for the note. I think you emphasise well how the requirements of different professional bodies, regulatory authorities, standards and codes of practice in different contexts are important factors to bear in mind in the coaching-therapy debate. With best wishes. Nick
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Eileen Peterson
8/11/2012 03:08:07 am
Lots of interesting points have emerged:
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 03:15:27 am
Thanks again, Eileen for stirring the proverbial waters with such challenging and thought provoking comments. I think you raise some very interesting points, particularly vis a vis respective levels of insight, knowledge and skill required to practice ethically and effectively in different personal-professional spheres. With best wishes. Nick
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Felicity O'Hanlon
8/11/2012 03:17:05 am
Hi Eileen and Ed, I really appreciate your thought provoking points you raise and examples shared, especially the concern over underqualified and inexperienced people straying into the mental health arena. This can be the result of disingenous marketing of lightweight coaching courses that promise to deliver expertise for a small time investment. This would hopefully not be the case with people undergoing coaching psychology training at reputable institutes. I would expect that any worthwhile coach training programme would address the distinctions between therapy and coaching.
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 03:20:38 am
Hi Felicity. It occurs to me, reading yours and Eileen's notes, that a whole new debate concerning diagnoses of 'mental health' could emerge here, especially when notions of 'mental health' are viewed from a social constructionist perspective... With best wishes. Nick
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27/2/2013 09:09:59 pm
Felicity,
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Shmaya David
8/11/2012 03:22:45 am
The coaching method I mastered, called "Results Focused Coaching" is very much behavioristic and very far from therapy. It is not difficult to steer away from being therapeutic if you address observed behaviors and not motives, actions rather than perceptions.
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 03:27:11 am
Thanks for the note, Shmaya. Could you say something more about what 'results focused coaching' looks like in practice? You raise an interesting point about whether a focus on behaviours and actions avoids moving in a theraputic direction, especially since some therapeutic approaches (e.g. Gestalt) have a similar emphasis on observed behaviours. Let me know what you think. With best wishes. Nick
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Eileen Peterson
8/11/2012 10:58:59 am
Shmaya, what do you say is "staying far from therapy?" What do you see as the differences between what you do with Results Focused Coaching and what happens in therapy?
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Justin Kennedy
8/11/2012 10:31:49 am
This is a great group! Well done all - how do I join up here?
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 10:32:44 am
Hi Justin and welcome to the conversation! With best wishes. Nick
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Robert Wilcox
8/11/2012 10:34:32 am
I have been using CBC for more than 15 years. It works very well with my high net worth clients.
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Nick Wright
8/11/2012 10:36:49 am
Hi Bob and thanks for the note. Would you be willing to share any examples of how you have used CBC in practice? For example, what the issue was, how you approached it using CBC, what happened as a result. Would love to hear more. With best wishes. Nick
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Heather Simington
10/11/2012 03:07:29 am
Everyone, lets break this down. CBT is the using 'Cognitions' and 'Behaviours' and the underlying causality to understand the client; to be on the same page to achieve successful and supported goal setting. Whether you call it a technique or a therapy is pure semantics and as such no one owns it. The big issue is whether the person presenting is taking a soft line for problems which are better served by seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist. How one assesses? This is a tricky situation and referrals can be upsetting for the client who often knows deep down that it not really about resetting the goal posts. Mental health education should be a part of every coaches fundamental education. Liking the discussion, thank you everyone, Regards Heather
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Nick Wright
10/11/2012 03:23:51 am
Hi Heather and thanks for the note. I agree with your comment that, in effect, 'cognitive' and 'behavioural', within a cognitive-behavioural framework, are ways of thinking about and understanding the client and what influences client change.
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24/11/2018 04:58:21 am
The practitioner's 'diagnosis' and resulting intervention strategy will be influenced by a number of factors.
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