‘My life has been filled with terrible misfortunes; most of which never happened.’ (Michel de Montaigne) Imagination can be a rich blessing and a painful curse. On the one hand, it can enable the most amazing creativity and innovation; on the other, it can cause the most terrible suffering and pain. Learning to handle and harness the power of the imagination can be a very valuable skill. Yet it can feel like trying to tame a wild horse. We sense and feel its power and potential but can never quite control it. Sometimes it can inspire or entertain us; at other times, it can terrify or overwhelm us. I remember an advert for an organisation that supports people with a frightening, degenerative, physical disease. It said quite simply, yet so poignantly, ‘It’s what goes through your mind that’s the worst’. I remember, too, a colleague who comments that, ‘The past exists only in memory; the future exists only in imagination.’ Imagination creates the possibility to experience as-if reality, now. So, if that means experiencing our happiest dreams – good; if our worst nightmares – not good. An opportunity and a challenge is that the brain doesn’t distinguish sharply between actual reality and as-if reality. This means that, if we imagine something vividly enough, it can be as if, mentally, emotionally and physically, we go through that experience for real. That's great for fields like, say, Appreciative Inquiry that capitalise on positive imagination to create a better and brighter future; not great for professionals who experience, say, vicarious trauma or secondary traumatic stress. How do you draw on the immense power of imagination to achieve positive change? How do you avoid or address its potentially damaging effects?
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Stella Goddard BA (Hons) Registered MBACP (Accred)
14/6/2020 08:15:11 pm
Thank you for sharing this Nick. My initial thoughts are that if we are 'imagining' the worst that may well be triggered by our back brain in fight, flight, freeze mode.
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Nick Wright
14/6/2020 08:19:49 pm
Thanks Stella. Yes, that could well be the case. I also imagine (I had to get that in somewhere!) that, if we are imagining worst case scenarios, that itself may trigger a fight-flight-freeze response. A catch-22.
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Stella Goddard BA (Hons) Registered MBACP (Accred)
14/6/2020 08:32:26 pm
Well l imagine (see l can do it too 🙂) that what we imagine depends on our life histories and the environment we are in. What we believe leads to what we think what we think leads to how we feel and how we feel to our response.
Nick Wright
14/6/2020 08:44:42 pm
Thank you, Stella. You made me smile. I agree that we imagine (and, at times, find ourselves able to imagine) is very much influenced by background experience and context.
Stella Goddard BA (Hons) Registered MBACP (Accred)
14/6/2020 11:28:28 pm
I find myself so moved by the woman in Myanmar. In survival mode we're using all our energy (which is very likely depleted) to get from one moment to the next.
Nick Wright
14/6/2020 11:29:44 pm
Hi Stella. Indeed - and well said.
Ian Henderson
15/6/2020 10:29:47 am
Two quotes spring to mind....neither of which I can claim the IPR to......"The mind is a place all of its own. It can make a hell of heaven or a heaven of hell" and "Nothing is good or bad. Only our thinking makes it so". Oh, how I wish I'd thought of those!!!!!!
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Nick Wright
15/6/2020 10:48:48 am
Hi Ian and thank you for sharing such great and pertinent quotations.
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Ian Henderson
15/6/2020 12:30:36 pm
That's an interesting area Nick. I sometimes get accused of being negative when what I am trying to do is to mitigate worst case scenarios!
Nick Wright
15/6/2020 12:33:16 pm
Hi Ian. That response may well reflect a phenomenon I wrote about very recently: http://www.nick-wright.com/blog/wishful-thinking. We sometimes believe what we want to believe and can react defensively if someone risks messing that up for us.
Jane Holliday
15/6/2020 12:25:37 pm
I found this quote recently that seems very apt for this blog. The heaviest burdens that we carry are the thoughts in our head. So very true.
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Nick Wright
15/6/2020 12:39:40 pm
Hi Jane. Yes, indeed. I was struck this weekend by how the action of one person, caught on camera and in story, captures and inspires the imagination and holds the potential to re-frame everything in the midst of an increasingly-polarised and heated debate:
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Henry Shaw
15/6/2020 07:44:41 pm
Imagination can take us away from everyday life, give us beautiful thoughts and feelings and inspire us. We can imagine a situation from different aspects and try to change it accordingly. If we think through a situation again and again, it can also be exhausting and we cannot let go. But maybe our soul needs this kind of processing to get peace or closure.
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Nick Wright
15/6/2020 09:03:37 pm
Hi Henry. I think you expressed that beautifully. I sometimes think of the impact of imagination on, say, two people watching the same film. Each experiences the same film differently, influenced partly by lived experience and partly by what the film triggers in their own distinctive imagination.
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15/6/2020 10:40:50 pm
Nick,
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Nick Wright
16/6/2020 08:53:49 am
Thank you, Tara. I first heard that the brain doesn't distinguish between fact and fiction (at least in the sense and situations referred to this blog) from a Human Givens therapist: https://www.hgi.org.uk/
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Andrea Dasilva, M Ed., RCC
16/6/2020 08:55:31 am
Vulnerable enough to imagine...
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Nick Wright
16/6/2020 08:55:56 am
Hi Andrea. I'm intrigued. Can you say more..?
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Andrea Dasilva, M Ed., RCC
16/6/2020 09:37:52 pm
In her awesome TEDtalks on the power of vulnerability (and in her books on the topic), Brene Brown makes known that vulnerability is the birthplace of creativity/ingenuity rather than the weakness it is often considered.
Nick Wright
16/6/2020 09:40:21 pm
Hi Andrea. Yes, I remember that TED Talk by Brené Brown. I like your links between vulnerability, imagination, innovation and daring.
Geoff Williams
16/6/2020 08:57:20 am
Thoughtful reflection on imagination 👍👍😎
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Nick Wright
16/6/2020 12:50:17 pm
Thank you, Geoff. 😃
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