‘Today the lines between mentoring and networking are blurring. Welcome to the world of mentworking.’ (Julie Winkle Giulioni) Some people like conceptual models. For those who do, I’m sometimes asked how I differentiate between coaching, mentoring, facilitation and training. After all, they’re all practices that fall broadly within the people and culture arena. One way I’ve found useful is to depict them in a simple model framework, as above. We can see here that coaching and mentoring ordinarily have an individual orientation, whereas facilitation and training have a group orientation. The distinction isn’t always as sharp as that in practice however since, for instance, team coaching, as the name implies, is with a group, and personal training is with an individual. Coaching and facilitation use a primarily non-directive approach, often focusing on process and enabling a person or group to surface their own insights and ideas by posing questions. Mentoring and training tend to be more directive, often focusing on content delivery such as sharing of knowledge and experience. Again, the boundary isn’t always that hard in practice. For instance, a coach or facilitator necessarily brings their own expertise to the encounter, from which the client may well draw insights and ideas. In mentoring or training, the practitioner may well use questions to enable a client to process and apply what they have learned for themselves. How, if at all, do you distinguish between these different but related fields of practice? How do you decide which is most appropriate, for whom and when?
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Olivia Hernandez
3/8/2023 07:53:03 pm
Hi Nick. You are talented to make complex things simple. Thank you for sharing it. Is it OK to share it with my team in Spain?
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 08:02:23 pm
Hi Olivia. Thanks for your encouraging feedback. Yes, please do feel free to share it. I would be very interested to hear their responses.
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William Miller
3/8/2023 07:55:49 pm
That grid makes sense. I agree it's an oversimplification. But it will be helpful to use with managers who don't know what they need. They often get mixed up between mentoring and coaching. This makes it clearer. Thanks for posting it.
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 08:06:58 pm
Thanks William. You're welcome. Yes, I notice that people are often confused about the difference between mentoring and coaching, especially as different writers and practitioners sometimes use them interchangeably.
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James Thompson
3/8/2023 08:01:02 pm
Hi Nick. I really like this grid. Clear and simple. These interventions all involve a practitioner eg a coach, mentor, facilitator, or trainer. Where would you put such as OD consultancy on the grid?
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 08:09:52 pm
Hi James - and thank you. Thank you, too, for posting such an interesting question. I think I may place OD consultancy as a floating intervention on the grid because it partly depends on what kind of intervention a specific client in a specific situation at a specific time would find most useful.
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Alice Marquis
3/8/2023 08:13:36 pm
Hey Nick Wright. "a coach or facilitator necessarily brings their own expertise to the encounter, from which the client may well draw insights and ideas". I'd never considered that! I always thought of the coach or facilitator being "neutral". We are influencing indirectly. Wow. I really need to think about this more. Great blog by the way!
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 09:17:34 pm
Hi Alice. Thank you for such encouraging feedback. Yes, I'm not convinced it's possible to have a "neutral" of influence-free presence or stance. As my former colleague, Richard Marshall (a wise occupational psychologist) would say, 'We are always influencing...but not always in the way we think or hope."
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Colin Baker
3/8/2023 08:18:35 pm
I don't like grids, Nick. No offence intended. They are too abstract for me. I need to see something that looks and feels more organic and human!
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 09:18:35 pm
Hi Colin. Thanks for your honest feedback. Yes, this kind of abstract conceptual model doesn't work for everyone!
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Phil Harper
3/8/2023 09:13:21 pm
Is this due to people wanting to or having to work in different roles when specialising has limited value?
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 09:24:54 pm
Hi Phil. That's an interesting question! In my experience, sometimes it's about creating clarity around what we can offer, and the distinctives of and boundaries between different kinds of intervention. Sometimes it's about enabling a client or potential client to think through what they would find most useful. My sense is that any specialism can be be of great potential value for some people in some situations at some times. Not everyone is interested, confident or competent to offer or deliver a broader portfolio. Sometimes it's about knowing when and where to refer.
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Paula Mahon
3/8/2023 09:27:04 pm
Hi Nick. I don't like the word "directive". It sounds like telling people what to do. Is that what you mean?
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Nick Wright
3/8/2023 09:38:58 pm
Hi Paula. I think that's a good and fair challenge. I have been influenced by T.M. Batten's 'Non-Directive Approach'. He distinguishes between different kinds of intervention in the following ways (my paraphrase):
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Paula Mahon
3/8/2023 09:46:50 pm
Thank you Nick. “Telling someone what to do” still sounds too directive to me. I would prefer “offering guidance” or “offering advice” under that category. Would that work in Batten’s model?
Nick Wright
3/8/2023 09:47:35 pm
Hi Paula. Yes indeed. 👍 Leave a Reply. |
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