On the edge of a New Year, social media accounts have been bombarded with messages about how terrible 2020 has been and how we can’t get out of it fast enough. Of course, 2020 has posed some significant challenges; most notably, on the global stage, the Covid-19 pandemic. The challenges in the wealthier countries, where we have tended to make the most emotional drama out of it, pale into insignificance when compared to the those faced by the poorest. We’re not used to this level of vulnerability, uncertainty and threat. It has freaked us out and, perhaps in some ways, that’s a good thing.
My hope for 2021 is that this glimpse of vulnerability, of real fear and helplessness, will engender far greater empathy for those poorest people in the world who live with that anxiety every day. And not just empathy, but a greater resolve to do something tangible to bring about positive and sustainable change. I hope it will drive us re-evaluate our crazy consumerism that is pushing the world further into irreversible environmental disaster. I hope it will reveal, too, our fundamental interdependence; although reports of rich countries racing to buy-up Covid vaccines first fills me with near-despair. Yet there have been, for me, silver linings in the midst of all this. I’ve been grateful to God for the opportunity to live with my parents all year, to support each other during the lockdown and to spend valuable, irreplaceable time with them. I’ve been grateful for free technology that has allowed me, and others, to do so much online that would otherwise have been impossible. I’ve been grateful for the chance, with others, to support the poor in the Philippines; an experience that has often brought at least as much richness and joy to my life as to theirs. What have been your silver linings in 2020?
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Mary Gleeson
31/12/2020 04:11:38 pm
Wonderful piece. and, yes I believe I am more in touch with my vulnerability and others.
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Nick Wright
31/12/2020 04:13:50 pm
Thank you, Mary. Me too. I hope and pray it makes me a more empathetic person - to care more about those who are and feel most vulnerable in the world.
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Stella Goddard BA (Hons) Registered MBACP (Accred)
31/12/2020 04:36:54 pm
This has certainly been a difficult year to say the least. My thoughts are that we are all suffering and that everyone's distress matters. The way that we respond to our distress and the distress of others depends on many complex factors. In spite of these challenges I see each new day as precious and an opportunity to do what we can with what we have. I have seen so much kindness this year personally and professionally.
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Nick Wright
31/12/2020 04:41:30 pm
Hi Stella. Yes, we each deal with these situations differently. I too have seen and experienced kindness this year. A good friend, for instance, made multiple trips up and down the length of England to repair my old motorcycle whilst he was on furlough. Another friend set herself all kinds of personal challenges to raise funds to support people in the Philippines who are in dire need. Light shines in darkness...and the darkness has not extinguished it.
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Alex Swarbrick
31/12/2020 06:30:00 pm
Thanks Nick. Thoughtful reflections. Personally, 2020 certainly brought circumstances I wouldn’t have invited, but also blessings I once might not have seen as blessings - like time to reconsider what really matters to me, and trying to get better at rolling with complete unpredictability!
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Nick Wright
31/12/2020 07:05:47 pm
Thanks Alex. Yes, it's interesting how such experiences can shift our perspectives and priorities so profoundly. Happy New Year to you too!
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Kathrin Hoffmann
31/12/2020 07:23:28 pm
2020 was different personally, but not bad. The lockdown calm in spring was good for both body and soul. In summer I had an unforgettable week in Slovenia. What a gift. And relationships have become more intense, although there is social distance. There are also lots of new inspirations, ideas and actions. So I can say thankfully: Thank you God for all protection, all accompaniment and all new experiences!
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Nick Wright
31/12/2020 09:27:03 pm
Thanks Kathrin. You reminded me of someone I heard on the radio a couple of weeks who commented that, 'Isn't it strange how social distancing has brought us so much closer together.' What a paradox. And new experiences too. We have a far greater awareness and understanding now of the possibilities of digital-social technologies, as well as home-working, and their respective limitations too.
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Felicity O'Hanlon
1/1/2021 09:01:35 am
Thank you Nick, it is good you help us think of what we are grateful for and what is positive because in these challenging times there is plenty to plunge us into negativity and even despair.
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Nick Wright
1/1/2021 10:11:31 pm
Thank you, Felicity. “Faith that lifts us to an eternal perspective so we can face the here and now.” I think you expressed that beautifully. I have been inspired by so many people who have turned around the “negative” impacts of Covid-19 into something positive. One person, for example, contacted me to say that she’d saved a significant money by not having to commute and would like to send all of it to the Philippines to support the poor. She said quite simply, “Jesus asked me to do it.” What a star. ⭐️
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Marion Valster MBA
1/1/2021 10:22:22 am
Reduced traffic was nice, not in the least for the environment, and many of my clients reported loving working from home. The dolphins in Venice, and other changes in nature were delightful as well.
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Nick Wright
1/1/2021 09:58:34 pm
Hi Marion. Yes, the near-miraculous change in the environment, especially during the early stages of global lockdown, gave a bright glimpse of what’s possible...if only we have the will to do it.
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Paul
1/1/2021 02:01:23 pm
An insightful piece Nick! If only people realize that with typhoons always come with silver linings. The pandemic brought us closer not only with the people we loved but with people we haven't had communicated for sometime. Indeed, God works in mysterious ways.
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Nick Wright
1/1/2021 10:01:16 pm
Thank you, Paul! Yes, mysterious indeed. 🙏
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Katarina Ivankova
4/1/2021 10:17:03 am
Hi Nick, thanks for sharing. I also had a chance to spend a lot of time with my parents, to reflect, to slow down and recover from burn-out, enough time to pray. It was a great year for me. I was convinced that this is the moment to move on from the orphan to the son/daughter mindset this year. I see that this grace from the Lord will open completely new horizons for me. God bless you Nick 😅
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Nick Wright
4/1/2021 10:19:02 am
Hi Katarina. You're welcome! 'From orphan to son/daughter mindet'. That sounds intriguing. It looks like you have another great year ahead for you. God bless you too.
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