If at first you don't succeed? 'Try to hide your astonishment.' (Harry Banks); 'Hide all the evidence that you ever tried!' (Billy Collins) There are things we can do, and there are things we are willing to do; and there is a great deal of difference between the two. I could be, for instance, capable of doing a particular job well but have absolutely no commitment to do so. I could, conversely, throw myself wholeheartedly into a job that I’m hopelessly incompetent at. If we like grids, we can draw two axes with can do/can’t do as one polarity, and willing to do/not-willing to do as the other. It makes a great, simple tool to use in e.g. recruitment and selection; performance management and development; talent and career planning. I worked with an organisation that used ‘ready, willing and able’ as a core talent management tool; a variation of a standard performance vs potential matrix. Ready meant ‘can do’ (as above) and able meant ‘wider life and work circumstances-permitting’. It opened up some valuable and creative conversations when leaders and team members met to compare and contrast insights, aspirations and ideas on possible ways forward. The ‘able’ dimension also drew broader cultural, contextual and systemic factors into the frame: influences that lay beyond individual can-do and will-do alone. In my experience, the ‘will-do’ dimension, which incorporates e.g. motivation, determination and perseverance, often proves vital. It taps into beliefs, values and character and sifts out, ‘I would love to do this, in principle’, from, ‘I am willing to do whatever it takes (within legal-ethical boundaries) to succeed.’ It’s also the aspect that many leadership, recruitment, coaching and training conversations pay least attention to; assuming that e.g. goals, experience, qualifications, knowledge and skills are enough. How do you ensure traction? How do you test, nurture and help sustain the critical ‘will’?
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Ram Alturas
19/6/2020 09:26:24 am
Thoroughly enjoyed this article, Nick! This article is worth sharing.
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Nick Wright
19/6/2020 09:27:51 am
Thank you for such encouraging feedback, Ram. Much appreciated. 😃
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Ian Henderson
19/6/2020 03:17:49 pm
Interestingly Nick, my 'buddy' Steve McDermott is a speaker and comedian and he always says if the audience don't don't laugh at one of his jokes he pretends they weren't supposed to!!!
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Nick Wright
19/6/2020 03:21:03 pm
Hi Ian. That sounds like a great way of achieving personal resilience by managing the messages we say to ourselves!
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Ian Henderson
19/6/2020 03:51:21 pm
Spot on Nick!
Nick Wright
19/6/2020 03:54:03 pm
Thanks Ian. That was easy. I simply told myself that, if you didn’t respond with that comment, it’s because you weren’t supposed to. 😎
Ian Henderson
22/6/2020 11:26:55 am
Genius Nick...sheer genius!!!!
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Nick Wright
22/6/2020 11:27:44 am
Thanks Ian. I do my best.
Felicity O'Hanlon
20/6/2020 11:33:13 am
So expertly and succinctly expressed Nick! Some key thoughts there for anyone in coaching, learning and development. The last two questions you ask are vital. But what are some practical answers?
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Nick Wright
20/6/2020 02:09:38 pm
Thanks Felicity - and for sharing from personal experience with students. You touch on some very important and difficult questions, particularly vis a vis motivation. For example: What motivates people? Is everyone motivated by the same things? Do motivations change over time or in different circumstances? What de-motivates people? How can we engage and retain people by ensuring that, as far as possible, ‘rewards’ match motivations? And, the million-dollar question: Is it possible to motivate another person anyway?
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Jill Downing
25/6/2020 12:31:38 pm
Sound advice in these fab quotations, Nick. Equally applicable if the start point was 'If at first I do succeed'!
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Nick Wright
25/6/2020 12:32:50 pm
Thanks Jill. I'm intrigued. If you were to succeed, would you hide all the evidence that you had ever tried..?
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Jill Downing
25/6/2020 05:47:44 pm
Part of this is tongue in cheek (I actually think I'm funny!*) but I also believe there are some occasions when it's good to focus on a great outcome, rather than the effort of achieving it. Especially if I knew I had to do the same thing again. Also, I think that clients, and sometimes colleagues, are more reassured by seeing the duck gliding serenely, rather than paddling like crazy. *This is not a universally held opinion.
Nick Wright
25/6/2020 05:48:27 pm
Thanks Jill. You made me smile. :)
Linda G Robert M.A., M.Ed.
27/6/2020 03:50:05 pm
I like these questions and tools. A lot of our clients are willing (at least to consider it), able and not necessarily ready. I think we may need to assess readiness with some simple questions and/or rating scale and then use some motivational interviewing techniques to move them closer to the I'm able, willing and fully ready to ......
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Nick Wright
27/6/2020 03:55:04 pm
Thanks Linda. The organisation I worked with that used 'Ready, willing able' used a RAG (red, amber, green) rating/scaling system for it, and combined it with conversations around talent flight risk etc. I like your idea of using motivational interview techniques. It could help clients identify, explore, address and resolve ambivalence, as well as increase ownership, agency and personal leadership.
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Mike Normann
30/6/2020 04:49:34 pm
A technique I like to employ to "test, nurture and help sustain the critical will" is opening the training with the rubber band analogy.
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Nick Wright
30/6/2020 04:58:20 pm
Thanks, Mike. Your use of the elastic band reminded me of a similar technique that I think I read in 'The Art of Systems Thinking' (O'Connor & McDermott). They stretched an elastic band between thumb and fingers on one hand and applied effort to stretch it. The point they made was that it only stays in that stretched position as long as you apply effort to it. As soon as you relax, the band returns back to its original size. It was an illustration of systems that hold things in place (or revert things back to where they started), in spite of concerted efforts to change them. In a training context, it means asking who and what else, outside the training room, will exert influence on whether what is learned in the room will achieve sustainable change. On that theme, this short related piece may be of interest? http://www.nick-wright.com/blog/micro-macro
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